desire satisfaction, regardless of their gender. That being said, our sexual media should be more inclusive. Men tend to internalize what they see in pornography, and if porn is one sided, they’ll be bringing that one-sided perspective to the bedroom. NO GO. That doesn’t work. Am I the only one that feels this way? To find out what my other (and more graphic) beefs are with porn, hit the “Contact/Info” tab and I’ll gladly email you back and tell you lol.
I have a few different reasons of why I don’t care for pornography, but my central beef is that it’s very one sided. Let’s face it; most pornography is designed to attract and entertain men. The issue with this is that if it caters to one audience, what a person is going to view will primarily be from one perspective. Sex is a SHARED experience. It takes two people to have sex and both partners
desire satisfaction, regardless of their gender. That being said, our sexual media should be more inclusive. Men tend to internalize what they see in pornography, and if porn is one sided, they’ll be bringing that one-sided perspective to the bedroom. NO GO. That doesn’t work. Am I the only one that feels this way? To find out what my other (and more graphic) beefs are with porn, hit the “Contact/Info” tab and I’ll gladly email you back and tell you lol.
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6/10/2011 10:13:14 am
Well, there is dominarix porn! LQH (laughing quite hysterically)
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J.Says
6/10/2011 11:47:31 am
@Dio: now, that's definitely one-sided! lol
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Crystal W.
6/20/2011 05:30:46 pm
The big problem with it is that sex is supposed to make people closer (emotionally and physically). It does a guy no good to get emotionally close to a girl he knows nothing about. At worst, it makes people entirely unrealistic about their relationships. Real people have real problems and real bodies (they wouldn't tell you the girl in the pic is bulimic and had breast implants). Guys figure out what they have isn't as shapely as what they see on the internet and lose interest in the real deal. On the other hand, imagine if a guy had the impossibly good luck of never seeing a naked (or tightly clothed) woman other than his wife. Even if she only had a half-way decent body, he would think it was the best thing on earth. Same thing for women. When I get married, I won't know if my guy is "small", "average", or "XL" because I don't go around making comparisons. For all I'll know, he's the best around ;)
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